Shared situation

I had an unexpected conversation this morning with another mother whose 2.5 year old son has the same heart condition as Kai. In fact, it was diagnosed under similar circumstances by the same pediatrician (the skilled Dr. Gold). The young boy had his operation three weeks ago with our surgeon, Dr. Ohye, and is fully recovered now. The mother spoke highly of their hospital experience, saying that we will quickly recognize that what Kai has is relatively uncomplicated in comparison to others who are in for a heart transplant etc. The capacity to recognize that things could be worse is a gift that needs to be embraced. It is key to making it though what seems like an impasse.

Supposedly, the young boy enjoyed the hospital (i.e. the play structure in the courtyard) so much, that he didn't really want to leave. They spent a lot of time blowing bubbles, watching videos and reading books. She said we should brace ourselves for several sleepless nights, but that we can rest assured that we are in the best of hands.

I'd hoped for a conversation with a parent who'd gone through a similar situation with a child Kai's age——and there it was!